How Cherishing Can Make Your Relationship Better

Many of us said it!
“…to love and to cherish, from this day forward…”
Or at least some variation of those words were part of many of our wedding ceremonies.
So having said those words some time ago (in my case 35 years!), when did you last catch yourself cherishing him/her?  And even if you’ve never married and [...]

Better Relationships – A Treasure Trove of Possibility

It’s everywhere!
Here at Calm Space. In many similarly inspiring places across the net. Your local bookshop has a big section. Even your daily paper sometimes goes there.
We’re all hunting for healing for our “21st century angst”.
The search is on for satisfaction for the soul, motivation for the days ahead, increased self-awareness, acceptance and belonging, shared [...]

Planning Some Christmas Calm

I know, I know…
I mentioned a word that many of you believe should never be used in the same sentence as “calm”.  (Was that “oxymoron” I heard you muttering?)
Just take a few deep breaths.  You’ll come good in a moment. I promise.
Firstly I must tell you, I know about your attempts at denial!  I know [...]

A Better Relationship Means Loving Their Flaws

With her trademark honesty, Chris explores the dark side of not feeling at all attractive. She shares her wake-up moment and lessons about loving someone with all their flaws, not just despite them…

Uninvited Advice

Has anyone ever given you advice on something big and life altering? And did you think to yourself “it’s my life!”? This month Chris challenges you to reassess your life and your relationships with a list of thought-provoking questions just for you… Is your life in your hands?

What’s the Difference Between Sex and the Garden Tap?

In a bold move this month, Chris likens women’s control of the intimacies within a relationship to the kid who had control of the garden tap as a child… Do YOU wield a power like this?

Why Conversations Can be Hard Work!

Your personality can have a big effect on the way you relate – especially in an intimate relationship! Whether you’re the life of the party or crave some quiet alone-time, Chris shares some of her own intimate moments learning to relate successfully…

Fancy Footwork in the Relationship Dance

Relationships are themselves a Dance with intricate steps and repeated patterns… this month Chris leads us through the steps of the Relationship Dance – including how to miss those toes and learn to move effortlessly together…

What Did You Sign-on For?

“Armed with what we’ve learned from our mistakes and our big wins, we grow and tweak ourselves and bring to our partner an ever-dynamic surprise package.” This month, Chris talks about the effect on our relationship of changing and evolving…